Breath Control

The last temptation of experimental sexuality

What is Breath Control? A clarification of terms.

If you type the term ‘Breath Control’ into Wikipedia, you will first be taken to a term clarification page where all the meanings of this term are linked. In this abstract, we will only discuss the use of breath control to achieve sexual satisfaction. If you expect something else here, please go back to the previous page.

Just to get to the point: We are only talking about consensual sex between adults!

There is a wide range of breath control techniques. The simplest form is to close your partner’s mouth and nose with your hands. If you want to have them free for more interesting things, you might gag him with fabric tape or with a pump ball.

Some guys just like being bound and gagged and only being able to express their excitement by moaning softly through their nose. Others love to be wrapped from head to toe in cling film (mummification) – perhaps with convenient openings for penis, testicles and nipples.

But breath control can not only provide a sensation at the moment of orgasm. It can also be stimulation by itself – for both sides! Some of us imagine in our wildest fantasies what it’s like to get overpowered and kidnapped by someone, only to wake up later tied up and blindfolded and subjected to ‘special treatment’.

Others get a thrill from doing this to someone.

Breath control can be done directly on your partner by using your hands (choking and homming/gomming), or you have tools such as ropes, belts or cloths for strangulation; foil, rubber, leather, plastic bags or tape for gagging. Devices such as (gas) masks, which closable openings, are also useful.

In the essay that accompanies this introduction, I will go through these ‘breath control techniques’ with you. You will learn about their possibilities, but also their limits and risks. Try them out with your partner and decide for yourself what is the hottest and safest for you. My list does not claim to be exhaustive. Just let your imagination wander and expand your knowledge. Maybe you’ll end up with completely new insights about your existence 😏

If you are a beginner, don’t let yourself be talked into something if you are not sure that you can reasonably judge the guy in front of you. By the way, this doesn’t only apply to sex. Even then it can still go wrong, but if you get blood circulation problems during such games – and that happens relatively often – you will be grateful having him immediately taking care of you, and not first for his pleasure!

Experiences, taboos and instructions for play

The neck is a very sensitive and especially an erogenous zone for most people. Pressure on certain regions of the neck can become one of the strongest sexual stimuli. The mental problem here is the link between sexuality and death – between fear and desire. This (and, of course, the instinct of self-preservation) makes it impossible for most of us to simply enjoy the excitement without barriers in the back of our minds. Therefore, we deny it and suppress our desire.

With this, most people throw away a unique form of sexual fulfilment!

Breath control is unquestionably of the most intense forms of sexual experience. You need absolute trust into your partner. And when I say ‘absolute’, I mean it! For a beginner, his worst nightmares can become true if someone handcuffs him and then start doing things to him that he don’t expect and may not even want.

This may sound hot to some people, and in the relevant one-handed literature it is often practised this way, freely according to the motto ‘The bitch will like it later!’. In practice you have to discuss such scenes with your partner beforehand! Because if you overstep the boundaries of his trust one time the play ends within a matter of seconds. On the other hand you can quickly get yourself a charge of coercion and I couldn’t even feel sorry for you!

Rules are the be-all and end-all of such a session. Only then the games I will talk about in the following really make sense and give pleasure to both sides!

I won’t go into any more detail here, because you are in the non adult section of this website. However, to this abstract belongs an extensive overview essay written by our author Mike Gorden in the nineties. It’s going so deep into the details that you should keep your hands with yourself while reading it. The essay teaches basic anatomical knowledge and shows exercises that will help you to get to know yourself, your partner and your needs better. The article is complemented by revealing testimonials.

This is about you and your partner(s), because the first and most important rule is:

Never play alone!

Note from the author:

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Your Mike